//a.from.b

Dec 05 2012

forever grossed out by people who say “consent is sexy”

FUCK YOU if you say this, spread this, use transparents with these three words written on them

Consent is not something to be sexualised or fetishised. That is just fucked up. Something that is sexy is optional to be included into sexual acts, consent is not optional. A person might think kink xyz is sexy, but that does not mean they have to, or are going to include kink xyz into every sexual act they ever perform. Something that is sexy can make a sexual act more enjoyable or adventurous. But that is not the role of consent. Consent is not something to be turned on by, consent is not a fantasy, consent is not a fetish, consent is not something to get off on. It is a fucking basic requirement for sex, cause without consent it is rape.

Also what is sexy or not largely depends on the individual. Different people have different preferences. But consent is not a damn preference.Unlike what is seen as sexy, which largely varies from individual to individual, consent is not a preference.

Also we don’t go around telling people that paedophilia is wrong by saying “adults are sexy”. It is absurd to sexualise adulthood only to get the point across that molesting children is wrong.

Consent is not sexy. 

And saying it were is just gross gross gross fucking disgusting wrong fucked up and gross.

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    yes thank you so much this is such a problem
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